Overcoming Feelings of Abandonment by God: A Personal Journey

Feeling Abandoned by God: A Temporary Setback

As a Christian, there have been times when I've allowed circumstances to cloud my perspective, leading me to feel as though God had abandoned me. One such instance occurred after recovering from a debilitating bout of flu. Despite regaining my physical health, I found myself plagued by fatigue, lethargy, and a barrage of negative thoughts.

In this weakened state, I started fixating on the perceived shortcomings in my life – the lack of energy, the absence of retirement savings, and the unfulfilled promises. It felt as though God had taken a vacation from me, leaving me to grapple with these challenges alone. However, upon reflection, I realized that this was merely a temporary setback, a faithless and childish fit, as I had forgotten the fundamental truths of our Christian walk.

Trials and Tribulations: God's School for Overcoming

As Christians, we are not exempt from trials and tribulations. In fact, these challenges serve as our version of school, designed to teach us how to overcome. The Bible reminds us that "Many are the afflictions of the righteous: but the LORD delivereth him out of them all" (Psalm 34:19) and that "we must through much tribulation enter into the kingdom of God" (Acts 14:22).


It's a common misconception that upon becoming a Christian, our lives will resemble winning the lottery, with miracles and blessings pouring in. However, the truth is that there are different stages in our spiritual growth, akin to progressing through various grades in school. The new converts may experience an abundance of miracles and blessings, but there are more lessons to be learned and greater victories to be achieved.

Strengthening Ourselves in the Lord

During times of perceived abandonment, it's crucial to remember that God has not truly left us. He may have stepped back momentarily, like a loving parent removing the training wheels to allow us to grow in our ministries. However, He is never far away, and He catches us when we fall, restoring our souls.

In such moments, I have found solace in the example of David, who faced immense distress when his village was ransacked, and his loved ones were taken captive. Despite his people's bitterness and their desire to stone him, David "strengthened himself in the LORD his God" (1 Samuel 30:6). He sought God diligently, put on the ephod, and waited for divine guidance before taking action. As a result, God led David to swiftly recover all that was lost.

Counting Our Blessings and Recounting God's Faithfulness

When feelings of abandonment creep in, it is essential to count our blessings and recount God's faithfulness in our lives. We must remind ourselves of the past victories He has granted us, enabling us to slay the giants we face today. By strengthening ourselves in the Lord and meditating on His promises, we can overcome the temporary insanity of misery and regain our faith.

Ultimately, God will come through once again, restoring all that has been lost or seemingly taken away. To reach the next mountain top, we must traverse the valleys, trusting in the Lord's guidance and provision throughout our journey.

If you find yourself feeling abandoned by God, take heart – this is a temporary setback, and the Lord has not forsaken you. Seek Him diligently, strengthen yourself in His Word, and recount His faithfulness. The valleys are part of the journey, but God will lead you to the next mountain top, restoring all that has been lost or taken away.